Valentine’s Day Attitude Adjustment

As Valentine’s Day approaches, many people start to feel pressured or anxious.  Those in couples often resent the huge price mark-ups and the imperative to do something romantic whether they’re in the mood or not.  Single people often feel lonely and depressed, either rushing to make plans or giving excuses of why they don’t really care […]

Seriously?

As the woman from my health plan abruptly cut me off and put me on hold for the fourth time, I thought to myself, “Seriously?”  While normally, I’m a very patient, laid-back person, two things canquickly send me over the edge: computer problems and bad customer service.  It took two hours, three transfers, and five […]

Banishing Boredom

Last night, I went out to dinner at an Indian restaurant with my friend Tracey.  She started telling me about her colleagues at work, then her voice suddenly trailed off.   “You were saying something about your clients…?” I encouraged her. “I got bored with my story,” she replied, going back to her masala.   I […]

Don’t Forget to Party

This may seem like a silly reminder, but you’d be surprised how often we forget to celebrate.  So caught up in achieving our tasks and goals, we check one off the list, then rush ahead to complete the next.  All too often, we forget to pause, pat ourselves on the back, and rejoice.   I myself […]

If Adam and Eve Online Dated

Imagine if there was online dating back in Biblical times:   Adam’s first email to Eve:   Dear tempting1: I really like your profile.  Is it true you have a pet snake?   Eve’s response to Adam: Dear onemanonly: Sure is!  I love that apples are one of your favorite things…mine too!   Adam to […]

Choosing Joy

“Che brutto giorno!”  (“What an ugly day!”) the woman scowled, dragging on her cigarette as she looked out at the pouring rain, flooding the streets into rivers.   Rosario and I felt otherwise.  Laughing as we splashed through the puddles, we jumped from doorstep to doorstep, stopping to make out and embrace under each dry […]