Not This Time, Brutus: Preventing Betrayal

“Et tu, Brute?” says a startled Julius Caesar in the Shakespeare tragedy, as he dies on the point of his closest friend’s sword.   While most modern day betrayals are not as dramatic as getting run through by a sword, many of us have felt the pain of getting stabbed in the back.  Many betrayals take place […]

You Already Know

My mind was full of questions and my body empty of food as I sat overlooking the canyon.  During recent months, I had lost faith in myself and my life dreams.  Was I really good enough to write a book that would inspire others?  Would I ever meet “the One” and fall in love?  I took […]

Cool Your Jets: Slowing Down in Love and Life

My upstairs neighbor has a theory.  “If you find someone you really like, you should wait 30 days before sleeping with them,” she told me over my kitchen table.  “It worked for me and my husband.”   I don’t know that I agree we need to wait a month before sleeping with someone.  (In fact, […]

Lighten Up!

Why are we so intense in our culture?  Why do we tend to work so hard and take ourselves and life so seriously?  What happened to our carefree days of childhood, when we would spend all day playing, laughing, and eating?  Perhaps school squashed the lightness out of us, perhaps our families did, or perhaps both.  […]

Unleashing Your Passion

When’s the last time you had really amazing sex?  When’s the last time you’ve moaned in ecstasy during an orgasm or while eating or drinking something that made your toes curl?  When’s the last time you’ve gasped with delight at the beauty of a painting or sculpture, hooted spontaneously, or were moved to joyful tears by […]